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Failure to Communicate


Communication is essential to good leadership. It is imperative that if you plan to be a leader that you learn to communicate. However communication comes in many forms and it isn’t just about being able to talk. Part of communication is being able to listen and also to be able to evaluate what you hear. When speaking as a communication tool you must be able to be articulate.
Here are some things you need for solid communication skills.
Public Speaking ability – You don’t have to be a public speaker you just have to be able to communicate your ideas clearly and articulately. If you can do this people will listen.
Be an active listener – This means to listen to those who are speaking with empathy and attentiveness. Be sure to acknowledge and repeat what was said so it affirms that you listened.
Evaluate and act upon what you say and hear – After you have spoken articulately and gained the respect of those around you act upon what you say. Don’t sit back and expect someone else to do what you have vision for. After you hear ideas of others ask how you can act and participate in their vision.
If you have trouble with any of these things I might suggest you find an organization or a club that will help you get better at all of these things. One organization that can help you with all of these things is Toastmasters. Get involved and you will see great improvement.

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